You may have been down-and-out at times when you look your sweet girl friend going out with someone who is way beyond her league. Poorer, you see her forbearing all the awful things that this guy has been giving her! And when you saw they broken up, you were joyous beyond belief thinking that finally the relationship established in hell is finally over. Until you heard her begging him to come up back!
It would be amazing to know that there are women who draw the most bitter boyfriends. It even seems that these women jump from one hurtful and rude boyfriend to the other.
At this point, if you think that you are that woman we are talking about then read on because this clause is for you. Or if you know somebody who is in this situation, assist her get out of the hooking-up-with-the-rejects imprecate.
The truth is, it is not only the boyfriend’s mistake as the women who attract the rejects do have qualities that need converting as well. The following bad feature may remind you of your girl friend who keeps on drawing the eliminates. And this can help you stop drawing the rejects as well.
Believing that you can amend your boyfriend.
Unconsciously, some women tend to believe that when they enter a relationship they can amend their boyfriend’s conduct. Although there are varying reasons, but sometimes they are just drawn towards the bad boys. And when these bad boys show their not so pleasant side, she automatically goes into the fixing mode.
The truth is, you can never exchange your boyfriend’s conduct by telling him all about his faults. If you do this, you would only make him see you as a irritable girl friend who is a perfectionist and that would make him leave you as fast as he can.
Being unconscious of the fact that you are a attractive feature for the rejects.
A lot of women who draw in the eliminates deny the fact that there is something improper with them even if they’ve been in and out of relationships with the same kinds of men. The sad thing is that they don’t make an attempt to keep off these men, but bringing up the relationship instead.
The next time your girl friends go to you and ask why they are stayed with the same kind of men over and over again, tell them what they are doing false.
If you find yourself trying to “improve” your boyfriend, end! It won’t do you any good as it only doesn’t work. Another reason why that won’t work is that your boyfriend does not require his girlfriend to act like his mother, teacher or psychiatrist to tell him what’s false. If he does change because of your spoiled, he may soon realize that he needs his mom, his teacher or his psychiatrist and not you, his girlfriend.
Be kind to yourself by not getting involved in men because you think they need amending. It will not work. If you want to stop seeing the disapproves and land yourself a good man, then improve yourself first. The good men aren’t on the outlook for a woman to fix them – they’re keeping their eyes open for women who are remarkable lovers.
